Table of contents:
- More About Pedophile Behavior
- Characteristics of Pedophiles
- Why Someone Becomes a Pedophile
- Handling for Pedophiles
Pedophile is a term for people who have a sexual interest or desire for children or adolescents under the age of 13 years. Most pedophiles are men, but women can also experience this sexual disorder
A form of sexual deviation committed by a pedophile is called pedophilia. This deviation is part of the paraphilia sexual disorder.
Paraphilia is a distorted sexual fantasy, urge, or arousal involving objects, activities, or situations that most people don't feel sexually aroused by.
More About Pedophile Behavior
Pedophilic behavior generally begins in adolescence or young adulthood. Perpetrators usually have sexual fantasies and urges towards children under the age of 13. To be called a pedophile, this disorder must be experienced for at least 6 months.
Usually, the victim of a pedophile is a child he knows, for example the child of a neighbor or relative. Pedophilia is different from sexual violence against children. A pedophile may have a sexual attraction to children, but that doesn't make him want to force sexual contact.
Pedophiles will usually approach children by paying attention. After that, the pedophile will continue with intimate conversation and sexual touch. At this stage, the child already feels close to the pedophile so he feels reluctant or afraid to refuse.
Children who are lonely, depressed, or don't get enough attention from their parents are the most vulnerable group of children to become victims of pedophilia.
Although most pedophiles do not force sexual contact, their behavior can still have a negative impact on the mental he alth of their victims. Children who are victims of pedophiles will usually feel stressed or depressed, even to the point of experiencing anxiety disorders due to the trauma they have experienced.
Characteristics of Pedophiles
To protect your child from pedophiles, you need to know the characteristics of pedophiles first. Here are some of them:
- Often familiarize yourself with children
- Often watch child pornography content
- Frequently engage in sexual activities with children, for example undressing children
- Happy to see and pay attention to the child you like
- Always want to touch the child's body parts, usually starting from non-intimate body parts until finally touching the child's genitals
- Rarely socialize and prefer to be alone or antisocial
- Could have drug abuse problems
Why Someone Becomes a Pedophile
Until now, the cause of someone becoming a pedophile is not known for certain. There are studies that say that this disorder can be passed down from families. However, it is still unclear whether this is related to genetic factors or inherited behavioral patterns.
In addition, there are several things that can increase a person's risk of becoming a pedophile, namely:
- History of childhood sexual abuse
- History of head injury in childhood
- Brain disorders
Handling for Pedophiles
Treatment of pedophilic behavior usually aims to help a pedophile to be able to manage his feelings and interests towards young children. That way, a pedophile is expected to be able to refrain from continuing his feelings into sexual activity.
There are several types of treatment that can be done to treat patients with pedophilia, namely:
1. Cognitive behavioral therapy
This therapy is a form of talk therapy used to modify the thoughts and feelings of a pedophile towards children.
Cognitive behavioral therapy is carried out by increasing the empathy of pedophiles towards children who are victims of sexual violence, so that they are not compelled to take the same action.
Through this therapy, a pedophile will also be trained to anticipate situations that can increase the risk of child sexual abuse and how to avoid or divert their sexual desires with something more positive.
In addition to psychotherapy, psychiatrists will also prescribe drugs, such as medroxyprogesterone acetate and leuprolide acetate. This treatment is done to suppress the production of the hormone testosterone, so that the sexual arousal of pedophiles can decrease.
Treatment for a pedophile usually takes a long time. Its success also depends on the person himself. The best results can be obtained if pedophile sufferers voluntarily and conscientiously undergo the entire series of care and treatment given to them.
While most pedophiles are horrific and unacceptable, remember that there are also pedophiles who are frustrated with their inner feelings. He knew that this was wrong, but had a hard time holding it in.
Therefore, if you know someone who is a pedophile or maybe you are annoyed because you are attracted to young children, don't hesitate to consult a psychologist or psychiatrist to get the right treatment.